Can you argue a narcissist out of narcissism?
Scientists now understand how empathy works. Can you talk someone out of narcissism? Does elusive childhood trauma cause a lack of empathy? Most probably, the answer is no. Narcissist. Will. Never. Change.
Why? Genetics.
Empathy is a reaction of an individual to the observed experience of others. Empathy can be measured; it is called a multifaceted empathy test. With a maximum score of 84 and a minimum score of 28, the self-reported questionnaire underlines the full spectrum of human empathy. The opposite of empathy is schadenfreude. Schadenfreude is a complex emotion when one takes pleasure from observing someone’s suffering.
Genetics
One of the ways empathy is embedded in human behavior is via the signaling of the hormone oxytocin. The oxytocin system is primarily defined by genetics, and one of the most studied genetic variants (rs53576) is related to empathy. Normal variations (GG, AA, AG) of rs53576 are widely different across the globe. The most empathetic GG variant has been linked to better social functioning and more balanced oxytocin functioning. An average of 40 % of the world’s population carries an empathetic GG variant with the highest prevalence in the African population (65%) and the…